For most of us, it's important to have plenty of self-assurance at work. Of course if we are lacking in self-assurance, we might eventually come across some new-found self-assurance. This trait can also be referred to as 'self-confidence'. Most leaders possess enormous self-confidence, but most of us exude self-confidence in some tasks, while lack self-confidence in other areas. In any case, someone with an air of self-confidence can get things done that might cause others to lose self-confidence.
I've found that people who have this trait have a great deal of self-control. Most of them have developed self-control over many years and exercise self-control on a daily basis. This is true even if they have lost their self-control at times. They always seem to regain their self-control and that helps them ooze self-confidence.
Those who are lacking in self-confidence often are overly self-conscious. They also become painfully self-conscious when others undermine their self-confidence by questioning their authority or capacity. I think it's self-evident that blustery self-assurance isn't attractive. In fact, many people who show enormous self-confidence are often selfish. It seems that these people only have their self-interest at heart.
It is by no means self-evident that self-interest is a sign of selfishness. Self-interest is also many times a sign of self-respect in order to become self-sufficient in life!
I've found that people who have this trait have a great deal of self-control. Most of them have developed self-control over many years and exercise self-control on a daily basis. This is true even if they have lost their self-control at times. They always seem to regain their self-control and that helps them ooze self-confidence.
Those who are lacking in self-confidence often are overly self-conscious. They also become painfully self-conscious when others undermine their self-confidence by questioning their authority or capacity. I think it's self-evident that blustery self-assurance isn't attractive. In fact, many people who show enormous self-confidence are often selfish. It seems that these people only have their self-interest at heart.
It is by no means self-evident that self-interest is a sign of selfishness. Self-interest is also many times a sign of self-respect in order to become self-sufficient in life!
New Words:
Exude: Rỉ ra từ từ (To discharge or emit gradually). Exude self-confidence: Sự tự tin có được dần dần.
Air of self-confidence: Ra dáng tự tin.
Ooze self-confidence: Tạo ra sự tự tin.
Self-conscious: E dè, ngượng ngập, không tự nhiên.
Authority: Uy quyền.
Self-evident: Sự thật rõ ràng.
Self-interest: Tính tư lợi, vụ lợi.
By no means: Chắc chắn là không.
self-respect: Tự trọng
Self-sufficient: Tự phụ, tự mãn.
Self-Assurance
Self-Assurance is similar to self-confidence. In the deepest part of you, you have faith in your strengths. You know that you are able -- able to take risks, able to meet new challenges, able to stake claims, and, most important, able to deliver. But self-Assurance is more than just self-confidence. Blessed with the theme of Self-Assurance, you have confidence not only in your abilities but in your judgment. When you look at the world, you know that your perspective is unique and distinct. And because no one sees exactly what you see, you know that no one can make your decisions for you. No one can tell you what to think. They can guide. They can suggest. But you alone have the authority to form conclusions, make decisions, and act. This authority, this final accountability for the living of your life, does not intimidate you. On the contrary, it feels natural to you. No matter what the situation, you seem to know what the right decision is. This theme lends you an aura of certainty. Unlike many, you are not easily swayed by someone else's arguments, no matter how persuasive they may be. This Self-Assurance may be quiet or loud, depending on your other themes, but it is solid. It is strong. Like the keel of a ship, it withstands many different pressures and keeps you on your course.
Self-Assurance is similar to self-confidence. In the deepest part of you, you have faith in your strengths. You know that you are able -- able to take risks, able to meet new challenges, able to stake claims, and, most important, able to deliver. But self-Assurance is more than just self-confidence. Blessed with the theme of Self-Assurance, you have confidence not only in your abilities but in your judgment. When you look at the world, you know that your perspective is unique and distinct. And because no one sees exactly what you see, you know that no one can make your decisions for you. No one can tell you what to think. They can guide. They can suggest. But you alone have the authority to form conclusions, make decisions, and act. This authority, this final accountability for the living of your life, does not intimidate you. On the contrary, it feels natural to you. No matter what the situation, you seem to know what the right decision is. This theme lends you an aura of certainty. Unlike many, you are not easily swayed by someone else's arguments, no matter how persuasive they may be. This Self-Assurance may be quiet or loud, depending on your other themes, but it is solid. It is strong. Like the keel of a ship, it withstands many different pressures and keeps you on your course.
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